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True Love Deficiency
Let’s talk about true love. Sorry, not the romantic kind. I mean unconditional positive regard—the type of love that’s genuine, trustworthy, and pure. Receiving this love gives the recipient the...
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For the Love of God
God’s Love: An Overt Revelation An embarrassing portion of things I’ve “learned” in recovery from sex addiction have been merely embracing and sensing things that were encircling me all along. Epiphanies...
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Change: From Resistance to Acceptance - 3 Components for Thriving in Chaos
They say the only constant in life is change. Despite my efforts to maintain predictability and stability in my life, change is inevitable. https://youtu.be/gxxF8Tw3KDs?si=Gx2QXJbogXpUbUMU   Of course,...
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Attuning to Grief
In the wake of my last post‘s exhortation to acknowledge grief as a part of life, I was recently put to the test. Life has a funny way of giving me opportunities to practice what I preach. An Opportunity...
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Overcoming the High of Sex Addiction - Part 2
7 minute read It’s Never Enough In Part 1, I mentioned how part of addiction is requiring progressively greater doses to experience the same effect. I truly wish I never sustained the excessive rush...
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Overcoming the High of Sex Addiction - Part 1
Returning to the Same ol’ Thing in Addiction Addiction reminds me of this Bible passage: “As a dog returns to his own vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” (Proverbs 26:11 NKJV)...
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Finally Going With The Flow
A weird thing happened the other day. As much as I like to take credit for my own personal growth, this one occurred a bit more organically. I began to notice something profound about my anxiety and how...
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Reflection on Complacency
Boy, I’ve been lazy. Sometimes, I get in a funk and need to take a step back from my normal routine. I don’t think that by itself is so wrong. After a certain amount of time on a hiatus, it becomes exponentially...
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How is the WeekEND Over So Fast
Doubtful others can relate to this concept of the weekend going by too quickly, but hear me out. Ever since Tony Stark cooked up the theory of relativity, we have at least had a scientific explanation...
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Real Talk Update
So, I did a thing. Okay, it was several things. This past week, I ran a little experiment for myself. First, a little background. A Little Background Five years into my recovery from sexual addiction,...
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